Discretions

Hello friends of old and new, let me introduce myself to you I am a founding member of Discretions and I’d like to share a story with you about the first swing club party that my husband and myself attended. You may find this funny so let me get to it.

Many years ago friends of ours decided to take us out for dinner and a movie, or so they said. They suggested we all go in their car (red flag #1 totally ignored). So off to dinner and a movie we went but the movie part never happened. As it turned out they needed to stop at a friends house that was giving a party and we were being taken along and then we would be off to dinner (NOT!)

Well we get to this party and not so much as a whisper as to what kind of party it is we are asked to come inside with them. At first glance it looks like your basic house party, nothing outstanding about it. Lots of people standing around talking to each other, there was a DJ, snacks, and a hot tub.

Then we were approached by the home owner and asked to fill out some paper work for the party (very non discript) and also asked to pay to attend the party. Once this was done we were presented with membership cards to something we had no idea what it was we had just joined. And so we sat on the couch and waited for our friends to finish their business.

As time went by we noticed people were constantly up and down the steps at different points in time. Then the first naked body walked by at around midnight. A lovely young woman who asked my hubby if he would like to go up stairs, to wich he answered no thank you. Then 10 minutes later another naked body walked buy (very well hung I might add as well) and asked if I wanted to join him up stairs, to wich I declined and blushed deeply.

Our friends did not come back down stairs till close to 3am and there we sat till that time waiting. When we left they never explained what the party was about and we just assumed that is was a case of people whom had had too much to drink.

But for the next 6 months we went back to every party and sat on the couch not knowing what exactally was going on and not asking either. But one evening the hostest asked us why we kept coming to the party if we were only going to sit on the couch, and I replied that we brought a membership to something and we were going to attend every party till our membership was up.

Finally the hostest explaned that it was a swingers party and that the regular attendies of the partys had a pool going as to how long we were going to sit on the couch before we got up and tried it. LOL … that my friends was a very different introduction to the lifestyle.

Please feel free to enjoy our embarrassment for the way we were introduced to the life style and add your questions or comments to the blog site, and by all means please do share your own stories of how you were introduced to the swinging lifestyle to the blog site.