How do you contact someone after a swingers social? Well if you did not get their information when you were talking to them at the party then you could possibly get it from the web site that they signed up for the party on.
When on sls you join the group and you have access to their sls screen names and have the ability to leave them an email. But beyond joining other groups where peoples screen names are available then there really is no way to contact them. Just hoping they will show up to the next party is all you are left with.
When contacting a couple or a single that you’ve met at a party but did not get their contact information it is important to be polite and remind them of where you have met. It is always nice to hear that someone had an interest in you so be just as polite when and if you feel the need to turn them down.
Remember everyone has feelings and it is unnecessary to hurt someones feelings when truning them down. But be firm in your words so that they understand that you have no interest and it should never appear that you will be contacting them in the future.
Please be sure to make it clear and you are not looking as if you are strining them along by saying things like yes it would be nice to have a drink and conversation with you, if you have not intention of ever doing so.
If you find that the person is not getting your point then put them on ignor or block. That should let them know loud and clear that you have no interest in them.
Good luck and happy hunting
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