Discretions

BlkMasterV

For those that have checked out our clothing store at http://www.cafepress.com/discretions we wanted to let you know to check back again.

Yes, part of our expansion has been new clothing designed to highlight our lifestyles. We have several new designs, with many more to come soon. We would love to hear youer thoughts about some of our latest lines.

More is to come. And your purchases are always welcome. Plus the money will be used to further expand the things we can offer you.

Check back over the next few months and be prepared to be pleasantly surprised.

By BlkMasterV

As you may notice we are getting things back up to speed here. I realize it has been a while.

We are jumping back into maintaining the site with both feet. In fact we are getting everything back on track after our long vacation. You will be seeing more posts, additional writers, and new events.

In future posts you can expect to hear various views on the BDSM lifestyle, swinging, and various other aspects of alternative life. These posts will be from both those that are very expereinced and those that are new to the lifestyles. We hope that all this information will be beneficial to everyone.

We look forward to hearing from you about your thoughts on our posts, parties, and the alternative lifestyles in general. We hope to make this a blog that is open, friendly, and without judgement on any aspect of consensual relationships between adults.

That doesn’t mean that anything goes. There are limits that we will keep. We will not allow attacks against writers, or lifestyle choices. We will not allow rude or vulgar comments. We will always maintain the right to reject any comment or post that fails to live up to our expectations or quality standards.

We may have been quiet for a while but we are not desperate. We will build out sites and this blog with one thought in mind. Quality over quantity.

I am BlkMasterV and I give you my word on that.

Written by Raven Demonique

Most people think of monogamy in the traditional sense, one love with one sexual partner. What happens when that monogamy becomes monotonous? You still have all the love for that one person, but the spark in the sexuality has been lost. Well some have found a new type of monogamy.

They still have the love for the one and only one in their life, their partner, but they have discovered the freedom of sexuality. In realizing that sex is a physical aspect that all people have, these people have opened monogamy to include sex with other persons. Now, this is all done to enhance their own sexual experience together. This new form of monogamy to many is known as swinging.

Swinging itself as a term has come under fire many times. Some say it is the breakdown of the modern age and the modern family. Yet those who are in this swinging lifestyle will disagree. They have found a way to enhance and reignite the fire in their own relationship. I am not afraid to say that my other half and I are part of this new form of monogamy. We are an example as to how redefining monogamy has enhanced our relationship together.

We both are very sexual people and for the past nearly 3 years we have kept a traditional monogamous relationship. This ended up having an unexpected turn to our relationship. Our love for each other had not been lost, but the sexuality was gone. We needed to find a way to reignite that spark. We decided to explore our own sexuality further.

There are many types of swinging out there, it is custom to every person and couple. So we decided to try something that worked for us. Since we started this our love for each other has increased, our passion for each other has been reignited, and our sexual life together has been phenomenal.

We, as many others, have found that monogamy does not necessarily have to mean one love with one sexual partner. We have redefined monogamy to mean one love with the one you want to share your life with. The sexuality has been moved to its own place, a section of carnal desire and fantasy. A place where you are free to explore the desires of the flesh and still return to the one you love and wish to share your life with without risk of losing them.